A young woman gives out strategies for women to get rid of men who can’t afford them. While this is a good strategy for women who want to receive the largest number of dollars from men, it’s also a good strategy for men to notice and avoid women who use it.
Think of it this way: is it you and her figuring out money together? Or is it you figuring out money to make sure she doesn’t find somewhere else to be? I wouldn’t bother with relationship #2.